Saturday, September 05, 2009

five

M turned five today, her most perfectly amazing self has turned another year. We've been excited about this for weeks, five is so much bigger than four and as such great merriment must be made. We also made a point of celebrating four, all the things that four brought that will never be again, things she's outgrown and also mastered and all the things yet to be.

We decided to have a small party at the house, she invited two or three friends and along with them comes a host of adults, village neighbors and surrogate aunties and the like. Every single person who has been invited has immediately asked me what they can bring and how they can help, something so common here and yet it still floors me every time, folks who have nothing still ready to give what they have. I also secretly think they think I am rather useless in the ways of jungle life, and as such if food is going to be prepared the way it should they'd better lend a hand.

We wanted to keep it simple, things here are done differently, there are no presents or goody bags, food is simple and there is no entertainment aside from each other. We talked about this a lot, how this party will be different than ones in the States, how we will have some presents for her but we won't open them at the party, having our own private breakfast celebration instead. M seems okay with all of it, she is nothing if not flexible, learning another way of life at an early age has had this very positive affect on her and I am so thankful, realizing how easily it could have gone the other way.

So today we celebrate our child, my child, my only-born, this great beaming bucket of sparkly rainbows who never stops laughing and is always ready for a hug. My big girl, my five year old magic maker, this little person I love more than I love anything else in this world, this sweet girl child who takes my heart outside of my chest with her everywhere she goes. I am so unfailingly in awe and delight and in love with her, I curve my hand around her still rounded belly and I hold her close and breathe her in and I know in this moment and in every moment that I am so richly blessed by her, that it is the supreme honor of my life to be the one she chose to guide her along her path and I do it with determination and with honor and sometimes with frustration and selfishness but no matter what I try and do my best because that's the least she deserves in this life and no matter where we raise her and no matter how we live she knows without a doubt how much she is loved and celebrated and on good days we even make it fun.

Happy Birthday, you magnificent, remarkable, bright and beaming girl. I love you always and in every way.

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24 comments:

meno said...

Five! Oh, so sweet, the five year old. Happy Birthday to your amazing little woman.

flutter said...

Happy Birthday, sweet beautiful spirit

Capital Mom said...

I hope you all had a wonderful birthday celebration!

Momish said...

Happy birthday to M!

the end of motherhood said...

It's true. Five is SO much bigger than four. Happy day...

Magpie said...

Happy birthday to her.

And, I do believe that your writing mojo is beyond intact.

Cold Spaghetti said...

Happy birthday to you BOTH -- and hooray for that flexible, fun, understanding, and adaptable little lady!

kim @ mommyknows said...

Happy Birthday Miss M!

It sounds like a lovely time will be had by all. Enjoy.

deb said...

Happy birthday Miss M.

luckyzmom said...

Happy birthday to you! Happy birhday to you! Happy birthday dear M! Happy birthday to you!

KC said...

She is beautiful and thriving. Good job, mama. xo

wheelsonthebus said...

as you know, we're celebrating 5 around here today, too. happy birthday, big girl.

Bon said...

happy late birthday Miss M, you lovely bit of magic.

Z said...

Happy birthday, lovely little M. I hope you all had a wonderful party. My son in law turned 35 on the same day. He didn't have party bags either, but he had fun all the same.

krista said...

i first read 'magic marker' instead of 'magic maker' and i think i might start calling my daughter a magic marker.
happy happy birthday sweet m.

Kyla said...

Happy birthday to your sweet girl!

Denguy said...

Happy 5th Birthday to her ladyship, M!

crazymumma said...

So nice to return to you on this. Five is....astounding. Soak that rainbow in.

xo anne

mamatulip said...

Wow, five already? Happy Belated to your sweet sweet girl.

kgirl said...

Holy moly! Happy birthday to you both!

hele said...

you are one of the few people who makes me feel like being a mom*

Christine said...

happy birthday sweet girl!

painted maypole said...

indeed. what a birthday celebration should be, a celebration of a person, of a life. not about presents.

Kim said...

Beautiful. Simply beautiful.